The guys/gals advice club

Wow. I'm so sorry. That's a pretty big deal. If you're brother tried to kill himself that means he probably has depression, and should get help. Just be supportive of him, let him know that you love him and other people do too. Make sure he's always being watched by someone, and if he's not on medication or seeing a psychologist, then make sure he is! Whatever you do- don't make him more upset than he already is!

Um I am assuming the reason why he didn't, because he realized on how important it is to being not dead. He wasn't stupid, or else he would be dead by now. Is normal dude we all try suiciding at one point, but then we get to know why it is important to keep going. There will always be good times, and bad times. The bad times show why the good times are great.

lala girl is right hes probably in depprion i mean hey! im emo im always deprest

oh yeah i heard if you do that you go trait to hell no offense

itzonlypeter dude harsh suicide is not normal

itzonlypeter is accually right. Suicide is more common than it should be. And if your brother is on medication you should check that out, sometimes medication makes it worse

1) help him find things to do...that he's able to suceed at...it improves self image...2) let him know that the world isn't a horrible place and when he feels that it is ask him to tell you...then listen to what he says, don't just offer advice without knowing what his issue is...3) initiate conversations with him...it shows that maybe you do actually care...4) don't just sit around and wait for him to try again...be active in his life...whether he likes it or not... sometimes meds help, other times they can even cause the problem...i'm assuming that his doctors have been notified and if he's on meds then they've been checked...if not get him there

linksshadow, forgot one...it's not your fault that you didn't notice that he was thinking about it or that he was going to try it...it's not something we usually tell someone else..................................... supersayingoten...no where in the bible does it say that suicide is unforgivable...in some religions, if it's done in the right way it even insures that you make it there.............................plus it won't make linksshadow feel any better

hmmmmm wut i would do is i would go do somethin he would enjoy wit him n try to make him have fun so he could forget abt his worries. idk thats wut i would do at least, but he might not wanna do anything so im not sure if that would work

Dude basically you need to let him be. No matter incase he wants to chill with you, or not youshould see at school incase hes getting punked / picked on same shit. So basically you should see how his school is. EX girl? Maybe rejection, it can be any those. Just see why hes try to do it. Hook him up with a girl so he would get something else in mind.