*The Talk-A-Lot Girls Club*

wow...that's kind of sad...wll what i woul do..well since this is me..i guess i woul get him alone and make a conversation as in like telling all u like about hibut u just dont feel the same way,if he asks you why did you wanna be my girlfriend then i think you should say "because..um..I was just shocked i didnt know what else to say i didn't wanna hurt your feelings",like let him down easy,and say u still wanna be friends,if he leaves,and doesn't wanna talk to you,try and call him,cuz after al ur the one breaking up with him right?so if he doesn't answer,give him some time..then call agin,and we'll see. also if u dont wanna do that then get annoying and make him feel kind o uncomfortable with u ^^

Thank you chibola. I'll see if I can do that. Butit's hard for someone like me...

I agree with chibola.But to add some more,if he asks you why you wanted to be his girlfriend ,you can say that the fact you 're friends couldn 't make you able to understand if you loved him the way he did or if you loved him as a friend.But,after accepting being he 's girlfriend you realized that you loved him as a friend.I think you should tell him how you feel know ,because it will hurt him more if you tell it to him later ,because all that time he would think that you loved him the way he did.And maybe that will make him hate you,cuz he might think you lied and then it all gets worse.I know it 's difficult,but you should give it a try .

test him. If this guy really luvs u then he'll understand and only want ur happieness. take it easy, and just say he should w8 4 u. cause u mite return the fellings one day. if ur completley shy and dont wanna sya anything, do wat i do and avoid them till they get the messg. or send sum1 to tell em. and act like nothing happened the next day.

Everything Chibola said and Otaku-chan are great ideas. I've had so many friends in this situation that its all to similar that it gets funny after a while. What i usually tell my friends is to just tell them everything you just said. Obviously you loved him enough to say yes in the first place so you wouldn't hurt his feelings, but you have to tell him that it wasn't "that kind of love" if you know what i mean. One of my friends broke up with her boyfriend cause she didn't really like him in the first place either and he got really mad and didn't want to talk to her anymore. Today i'm still trying to get him to talk to you but you have to understand that if he can't accept that you don't wanna be in that kind of relationship with him you can't feel bad cause you truly tried to make things work out. But if he really likes you he'll probably understand and be hurt but he'll eventually get over it. :D Keep an update on whats happening with ur situation okay?

-_- that's cold OMGxMOO u said thier ideas were good but u didnt say anything about mine... im mad at u *makes pouty face* ......okay im bored at being mad so ill get over u it. but u should at least apoligize, or say Y u dontthink my idea is good. and btw she's rite, plz keep an update 4 us ^^

no prob ^^

lol phreak-of-anime dpnt get sad ^^,i thoguht ur idea was great too ^^

Thank you. I'm gonna meet i'm today soo we can go to the movies. Because he's mother has work (she's a 1st grade teacher) he's gonna bring he's little sister, soo I'm kinda safe, because he'l probaly won't touch me if she's arround. I mean, who would try to kiss me all the time 'till I can't brief when's a lil kid near us? the thing is that, becouse of that I'm afraid of telling him today, soo I'll just do what phreak-of-anime said. I'll try to avoid stay near him all the afternoon. And if he confronts me, I'll just have to tell him. Even though he's with a lil girl.

phreak-of-anime I'm SO SORRY! I DIDNT MEAN NOT TO INCLUDE YOU!!! MY COMPUTER IS BEING WEIRD AND I THOUGHT I COPIED AND PASTED EVERYONES NAME DOWN!! IM TRULY SORRY!!! SORRY SORRY SORRY! UR IDEA WAS GREAT! Oh god kill me now... *runs away* its okay if you hate me... i'm such an idiot.