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i ask for advice when babysitting. i have a younger brother who behaves badly, breaks things usually and blames me. hes hard to control..anyone have suggestions to help me keep him behaved that wont cause him to cry to our mother?
Reply to this Topica cage =). jk. try wearing him out with lots of physiol activity then he'll just sleep the whole time.
Well most kids want attention as you must already know. Just sit down and play with him and do what he likes to do the most. See my little cousin is a born beast, at the age of 3 he drop kicked me in the face, but either way I played and wrestled with him till he was worn out. Not only did he not cry, but he also liked to be by me whenever I was around.
You kmow kids can be really hard to handle..It helps many times to thing you 're your brother and make yourself think what would possibly make him be friendly with you.It hepls to get to know each other better rather than fighting.Always being calm whatever the situation and try to do something that he likes.Like talking about vieogames.Even if you don 't know you can ask him what 's his favourite and tell him to decribe it to you.That way he 'll get excited and like you more at the same time.Because all that children need is attention.If you don 't pay attention to them they 'll punish you.I 'm sure that he does all this as well as the blaming thing to get attention.Try ignoring him once and see how he reacts.Not even look at him and pretend he 's not there.I 'm sure he 'll go crazy.
Coninuing my last post... Do it when your parents aren 't home.When he starts crying,but without moving(i mean not running or breaking things but standing or sitting down),hug him and tell him that you can pay attention to him in other ways.Not just when he breaks stuff.If you didn 't get something please say so,I know the things i wrote are complicated.Hope I helped!
well um how about tryin to calm him down when hes about to breake something
WELL MOST KIDS STRIDE FOR ATTENTION SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO STOP THEM FROM WHAT THERE DOING AND GIVE THEM A HUG EVEN IF IT MEANS GRABBING THEM AN HOLDING THEM STILL FOR A MOMENT HE WILL FILL YOUR EFFECTION AT THE SAME TIME HIS NEED FOR ATTENTION IS MET A THE SAME YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HIM LETTING HIM KNOW WHAT HE IS DOING IS WRONG WHILE HUGGING HIM IT WILL AT THE SAME TIME MAKE HIM FEEL HE HAS YOUR ATTENTION AT THE SAME TIME YOU HAVE HIS ATTENTION I HOPE THIS MAKES SENSE TO YOU EXPLOSIVE-ECCHI
let him play but when u c him slowing down in his moves, make him watch tv. then he might go to sleep after that
Ya I was raised by girls too, but the thing is I didn't mis behave. She was like in her 20s, so I pretty much show respect to her. She always took me out to movies, shopping, and other stuff. What you should do implant that fear into your brother's eyes. You should hit him till his eyes bleed. Having to hit your brother at the age he is now. If you do so, he'll only show nothing but respect. Some younger brothers wished that their older brothers whoop em. Only 1 reason though. To learn discipline to some extent. Thats why you see nicer brothers, and sisters getting picked on. If you can't beat your brother. I would say to get someone else in the family which is a guy to beat him. No matter at what age he is. I will show him discipline.
tiy him up and force him in to a time out!!!
does he try to blackmail you...like if you don't let him do something he'll tell...or like blame things on you for what he did...or just won't listen to you...does your mom always take his side or does she listen to both of you and says your the older one and she expects more out of you... sometimes giving them good attention will help...playing with them, hugging them, giving them a treat...other times a good ole butt kicking may be the most effective response